SEXUAL OFFENCES - PREVENTION AND TIPS

As per the South African Police website, the following hints and tips may assist safeguarding you against sexual offences:

Sexual offences involve sex without consent, unwanted sexual touching, or being forced to engage in humiliating sexual activity.

Prevention

OUT THERE

Vulnerability increases -

• in dark and deserted places at night;
  
• if you look vulnerable (e.g. walking alone in desolate areas);
  
• if you appear uncertain, for example if you do not know
  
• where you are going;
  
• if you do not lock your car doors and close your windows;
  
• if you talk to strangers;
  
• if you stop for stranded vehicles or people; or
  
• if your vehicle is faulty and you have to stop for help.
  
• Be aware of your surroundings.
  
• Be alert at traffic lights and stop streets.
  
• Walk close to the curb and face the on-coming traffic.
  
• Try and keep to well-lit areas or where there are people.
  
• Do not hitch-hike.
  
• Do not pick up hitch-hikers.
  
• Keep a whistle with you - and blow it if you need help.
  

At home

• Do not allow a stranger into your home - even if he is delivering something or providing a service.
  
• Ask for an identity document or phone his/her office to check his/her identity.
  
• Invest in the best locks and security you can afford.
  
• Never tell anyone that you are alone at home - and make sure the children also know not do so.
  
• Know your neighbours - and together plan ahead for how you will respond in a crisis.
  
• Know your local police station - and discuss safety matters with the police.
  
• Become involved with local crime prevention efforts with the community police forum or police.
  

On a date

• Do not allow anyone to touch you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable
  
• be firm and clear and say NO!
  
• Do not leave a party or social event with someone you do not know or have just met - say NO!
  
• Ask friends for help if someone ignores you when you say NO!
  
• Remember: most rape victims know the rapist.
  
• You have the right to say NO!